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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
Hey Evan! I’m dealing with an issue that I can’t find explicitly addressed on one of your old posts, so I thought I’d write and see if you can help. I am 38, and divorced three years. I am looking for a relationship, but perfectly happy with my life in the meantime.
Read More… 6 commentsWhat is Cheating?
Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?
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I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. He has worked out of the country for 2 of those three months and just got back home this week. While he was away he called me or texted me everyday, was very attentive and made the effort to keep in contact since he was on the other side of the world.
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