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  • Cheryl O.

    "9 months and 14 first dates later, I met the man of my dreams! Love is not a big enough word for how we feel!"

    It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.

    Cheryl O.
  • Carol H.

    "Hang in there if you are feeling despair – if this 60 year old English professor can find love, I suspect you can too!"

    I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.

    Carol H.
  • Tina P.

    "Evan answered my question on one of the calls and it was the best coaching ever."

    I’ve chosen to be cherished and allow myself to know that I was worthy of love.  Now, I feel like when I go with the flow and stop trying to control any given situation, things fall into place. It’s so exhilarating!  

    Tina P.
  • Julie Z.

    "You really helped me filter and attract the 'kind, compassionate, funny' winner from the rest."

    He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions. It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk."

    Julie Z.
  • Maria N.

    "Evan, you’re amazing. You’re changing a little corner of the world in a very special way."

    The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!

    Maria N.

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Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years?

As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Michelle Obama appeared and said, “If you’re married for 50 years, and 10 of them are horrible, you’re doing really good! Anybody would take those odds.”

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How to Up Your Game At Parties

I do a lot of online dating stuff because it’s hard to create a social life from scratch when you’re 35-60, work in a small office, and most of your friends are married. But that doesn’t mean I don’t see the great importance of real-life interactions.

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My Boyfriend of 5 Years Hasn’t Proposed to Me Yet. What Should I Do?

I’m 42 years old and my boyfriend is almost 48. He was married once before and has two young adult children. We’ve been together for five years. Three years in, I asked about marriage and he told me he wasn’t ready. I was ready to break up with him until he gave me a sweet promise ring and swore that he really does want to marry me, but he just wasn’t ready and needed more time.

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