• Shelagh M.

    "Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

    You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment.  I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.

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    Charlene J.

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Why Do Men Get Serious So Fast?

Why Do Men Get Serious So Fast?

Please don’t do this. I agree with you in principle, as I wrote above. That doesn’t mean you should advertise it. “Moving slowly” or “Friends first” is easily read as “I’m fearful. I have issues with trust and sex. You won’t get laid for at least a few months.” You can move slow, but don’t take away the thrill of the chase by explaining this in your profile.

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Getting Sexually Rejected Sucks for Men and Women

Getting Sexually Rejected Sucks for Men and Women

It’s a bit of a trick to make someone you’ve been with for a long time feel desirable, but it’s vital to the health of the relationship. Sex with a monogamous partner will rarely feel “new” but it can – and should be – mutually satisfying, no matter how long you’re together.

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