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know and like men with an entirely new perspective."

    I feel more confident and relaxed and I'm not even sure it matters if 
I meet the one. I have a whole new way to enjoy life and enjoy having 
men in my life.

    Aileen W.
  • Rett R.

    "I am so happy because I met Mr. Right!"

    To make a long story short, I am so happy because I met Mr. Right.  He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction.  We are committed and our relationship is going on strong for three years now.

    Rett R.
  • Julie H.

    "Thank you, Evan, for enlightening me, having faith in women, and being honest with what 'is'!!"

    The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.

    Julie H.
  • Ana C.

    “You opened my eyes to the fact that my boyfriend left because he didn’t love me unconditionally.”

    I am in such a better place today because of your insights and inspirational guidance. I was so stuck on getting him back, but now I realize that I don’t want him back! I deserve someone who will love me unconditionally, no matter what.

    Ana C.
  • Cheryl O.

    "9 months and 14 first dates later, I met the man of my dreams! Love is not a big enough word for how we feel!"

    It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.

    Cheryl O.

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

Hey Evan! I’m dealing with an issue that I can’t find explicitly addressed on one of your old posts, so I thought I’d write and see if you can help. I am 38, and divorced three years. I am looking for a relationship, but perfectly happy with my life in the meantime.

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What is Cheating?

Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?

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