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    "Give the guy a chance to prove he might have what you need for a satisfying relationship."

    I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.

    Connie D.
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    "Now I feel empowered and I am glad to be free of him, to find the one who will love me without question."

    I learned, through reading “Why He Disappeared”, that because of the fact that he did not commit to me, I really didn't want him back. I realized that I needed to find the man who would love me unconditionally for who I am, not for who he wanted me to be.

    Kim M.
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    "Thank you for what you do, Evan."

    Here's the deal.  I read your blog - I devour your newsletters.  I've learned so much about men (and myself) through the process. 

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    "Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

    You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.

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