The Most Empowering Dating Advice For Women Ever!

You ever feel that you, as a woman, are the gatekeeper to sex? And that, after you have sex, men become the gatekeepers to long-term commitment? If so, you’re not alone. But today I’m going to share with you a powerful paradigm shift that will remind you that you ACTUALLY have tons of power when it comes to both sex AND commitment.

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  1. 1

    That is fantastic advice! I know a guy who plays that card, even if not overtly. I must say i see it working! I’m in! Thanks Evan, I think you are fabulous ❤️

  2. 2

    I really enjoyed your take on who has control when dating. I usually say “No, I don’t know you yet!” I’ve been called all kinds of names, accused of leading guys on and having guys think that “No” means “Yes”. But having sex on the third date just isn’t enough time for me. Needless to say, I’ve had numerous proposals – on the third date too, but they were just to get me off the market. No one really took the time to get to know me, so In time getting married didn’t become high on my bucket list. Now that I’m much older (and still single), I see some of these guys who are now married. I realize that I made good decisions in my dating past.

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    halla ayla

    I just love your love for women!! And your sincere desire to help is so visible. What a great guy you are!! thank you for your care and the goodness in you that shines through!Halla

  4. 4

    Yeah but women have become the gatekeepers to long long term commitment and that’s worth more than both sex and long term commitment put together. Like kids and a house more.

  5. 5

    Thank you, Evan. I just called off my wedding and the relationship is on probation. We love each other and I am taking time to see it important changes happen. Have a beautiful Sunday.

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    Jane M

    Thank you ONCE AGAIN for some great dating advice. So glad I found you it has been a LIFE CHANGER, just wish I had found you decades ago LOL. But at least I’m getting great advice from you now, keep coming back to get recharged and motivated and make sure I’m on the right path in my dating endeavors. Also I forward your advice to several of my friends who are feeling discouraged in the dating world and ready to just give up. Appreciate you so much!!!

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