I have felt helpless and insecure about how to act and what to do with the man I was dating. You advised: “don’t do anything” and “enjoy the moment without taking a glimpse into the possible future together.” I learned my lesson and let him go forever.
Today, I am confident and know that I am positively set up for a new man to come into my life. I am aware of the traps like chemistry or taking action or not being in the moment and fully enjoying it. In addition, I have learned to focus on how he acts in between dates and to pay attention to his negative characteristics of a person. Either I can live with them or not.
Greetings from Zurich, Switzerland,