I finished reading Why He Disappeared in less than two days. It has very much changed my perspective on men and dating. Within a week of reading the books, I started seeing a very nice man. He is treating me very well. And I am “doing nothing.” Whereas previously I had been “proactive,” investigative, wanting to read the last page of the book right at the beginning, showing up on dates expecting to be wowed. Now I’m just focusing on having fun and getting to know someone. I have been unsure of my chemistry with the one guy I have been seeing and how attracted I am to him. He does not feel like the typical guy I would date. He is attentive and we have gone on very nice, fun dates three times in one week! I am used to guys who ignore me and tell me how busy they are because apparently I tend to seek out men who are ambitious and charismatic and have high-powered jobs. Those guys have never treated me well though. I am trying to focus on how I have been wrong about things in the past, not get ahead of myself or worry too much if a guy is 7/10 or short. It is still a struggle for me because I do like the tall, dark and handsome guy that everyone likes. But I am changing my perspective on what I really want and the right guy for me. Thanks Evan.
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TERESA D.
"Even with a doctorate in Psychology, I never learned what I needed to know to have the kind of relationship I deserved."
I never expected to be sending you this email. It will be four years that we have been together. This crazy time has brought us together even more. Although, I never thought I wanted it, it made me realize how much Barry is a part of me and we are now engaged! We plan to have a small family wedding with our kids sometime in the next few months. I hope to have a celebration party at our home once this crisis is over and I would love for you and your wife to join us. It will be a while before a large gathering can be safe but I am looking forward to it.
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LAURA W.
"He proposed last Thursday evening in front of my family's lake house - he said he knew that is my "Happy Place" and wanted to do it there."
We are engaged! He proposed last Thursday evening in front of my family's lake house - he said he knew that is my "Happy Place" and wanted to do it there. I will add that he also did this right before spending the weekend helping my sister and I move my elderly parents from one assisted living place to another so I teased him that I knew he is really in this "for better or worse"! We are both excited about the future and as I've told you before, I really have you to thank for all of the advice, guidance, and pep talks I got from you.
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NAILA R.
"I've recently celebrated my two-year anniversary with my husband"
At 27-years-old, I am young, I am extremely goal-oriented and busy, but I've known for a while that I want to make time in my life for love. For a long time, I really only believed this in theory, but over the last few years, I have had a few boyfriends, random love interests, the guys you go out with who string you along and it doesn't go anywhere, and even a couple of guys I have been guilty of stringing along without it going anywhere...
Before joining Evan's Love U program, I had actually already been receiving a lot of his newsletters for a while and putting them into practice the best I could (like actually making time to date people, and putting in the required energy / minimal effort to have results ;). It took me a while, but I had already begun taking his advice seriously about knowing when to walk and when to give men a second chance, to look for things in potential future-boyfriends that would make me feel good and fulfilled in the long-run rather than looking for someone who was just like me, and of course, to keep dating, no matter all those disappointing dates!
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LAURA A.
"I love him, so do my kids. And I owe it all to Evan Marc Katz."
I never dated online before I worked with Evan.
I know that every single thing he teaches is true - listen to him - follow his advice - he definitely knows what he’s talking about! I refer everyone to him. When I listened to him, great things happened- when I didn’t, I fell on my face.
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ASHLEY K.
"I followed your advice religiously and found exactly what I was looking for!"
I followed your advice religiously and found exactly what I was looking for! I'm still touched and grateful that you did that call with me back in January.
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MARY B.
"I ended up getting engaged to my boyfriend, we are getting married next June, and I’m three months pregnant!!!!!!"
It’s been awhile and I have been meaning to update you. All good news! I ended up getting engaged to my boyfriend, we are getting married next June (because the venue was sold out this year) but it’s all booked and everything, and I’m three months pregnant!!!!!! We are due on New Year’s Eve!!
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ELIZABETH D.
"Mark and I are ENGAGED!!!!"
Mark and I are ENGAGED!!!! We got engaged on Leap Day at Rehoboth Beach, about two weeks before everything went crazy and shut down. The timing worked out perfectly because we were supposed to go to DC that weekend to see friends and we are able to get together with people. So, you have another success story!
We are planning a wedding for November 14 (for now). We were a little optimistic when we picked the date back in March. We are excited to be getting married, but I would not recommend planning a wedding in the middle of a pandemic!
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RUTH K.
"Two years ago, we got married at 80—and couldn’t be happier."
There I am today, once again a poster child for online dating at any age. Not only did Bob and I meet at 75, but two years ago we got married at 80—and couldn’t be happier. The morning after our big 80th birthday party we invited just the family to brunch and surprised them with a wedding—very informal needless to say.
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YULIA I
"I learned that men are not scared by strong and successful women but actually like them."
I was in my late forties, successful in my career as a medical doctor, but feeling as a shipwreck in my dating life. I knew how to lead a CPR team if my patient`s heartbeat has ceased. I had no idea how to take care of my own matters of the heart.
I had a long history of bad relationships, dates disappearing after a seeming success, and me taking night calls on holidays to avoid loneliness.
My perception of the situation was in the lines of "I am too old and fat", "I am too foreign and my accent is too strong", and "I am too smart and too successful, and that scares the men away.”
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