When I first hired Evan, I was coming off of a horrible relationship with a selfish man who never made me feel safe. Evan challenged me – not to change myself – but to change my choice of men. He didn’t always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. He was honest with me even when I didn’t like it.
He held a mirror to my face, so I could see how I was sabotaging myself. No one enjoys that, but it’s important if you really want to make a change and find true love. In just a few months, I learned so many things:
- Actions speak louder than words.
- It’s not always as personal as we make it out to be.
- The right guy does the right thing!
- There is a difference between what you want and what you need.
- I don’t want to run a marathon in heels.
I wish I had understood these things earlier, but life being what it is, I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. I’m in love, married and now have a family. I couldn’t be happier. I really wanted Evan to officiate our wedding, that said it was very important to my husband that we have a Rabbi. And, as I learned from Love U, compromise is important.
But honestly, if it weren’t for Evan, I don’t know that I would be married. He taught me a great deal and I’ve been spreading his gospel in an attempt to pay it forward. In short, I thank him for everything I have now. I can’t say that enough. Evan and Love U have given me tools I will use for the rest of my life – with my devoted husband…