I’d like to share some happy news with you. I got married and we are welcoming a son later this year. My husband is kind, generous, funny, handsome, consistent, communicative, and supportive. My girlfriends tell me how lucky I am that I found someone who’s so attentive. He voluntarily does most of the housework to boot! Yet I’d describe him as being predominately more masculine (he enjoys beer and all things sports) and I enjoy leaning into my feminine side with him. He has been pampering me lavishly during my pregnancy! I had planned a surprise birthday trip to Vegas for his 40th, but after informing him of the need to cancel after finding out our due date, he simply replied that the best gift he could ever have is a child. His optimistic outlook, smile, and laughter energize me every day I come home from a long, fatiguing day at work. He is the true light and love of my life.
Even though our timeline was a little compressed due to our mutual desire to have multiple biological children (we’ve been together for almost 1.5 years), I’ve truly felt the best and most secure I’ve ever felt in any relationship. I went through 2 prior relationships while I did coaching with you, and there were some lessons I needed to learn. After all of the disappointing first, second, and third dates, long-term relationships, and messages online that went nowhere, I love how the wait resulted in the imperfectly perfect man of my dreams.
Thank you for everything you’ve taught me over the years about life, love, and how to be a good partner. I hope you know how much you’ve changed my life for the better.