After being married for 13 years, I was ready to jump back into the dating scene, and I knew I wanted to use online dating to meet the man of my dreams. So, I decided to do some research on “online dating best practices” and stumbled upon Evan. It had been a long time since I’d dated, and Evan’s tips about getting started online helped me go into the whole process with the right mindset and attitude.
My main goals were to determine the type of man I wanted to be with, who would be a right fit for me. In my past relationships, I’d always led with my heart first, and ended up being disappointed. This time, I wanted to make better choices so I could find long term happiness with a partner who was a good fit for me…not just someone I was physically attracted to.
My second goal centered around learning how to communicate and express my needs without making the man wrong. How can I set and keep boundaries without being a bitch? And, what are good boundaries anyway?
I learned so much from Evan’s coaching. How to set boundaries and enforce them in a loving way. How to mirror a man’s actions. How to lean back and let the man lead and not over-perform in the relationship. How to recognize the signals that I’ve got an unmet need within myself, then form the words to express that need to my boyfriend. How to stop thinking so much and just have fun.
The result of all this is, in less than one year, I met my fiancé online. I was passionate about meeting someone who respected me, honored me, and really loved me…just for me. And, I wanted to feel the same about him. I’m thrilled to say that I found that man.
Thank you Evan for your training. I’ve used my new communication tools not only to create a fantastic relationship with my man, but it’s also improved my relationship with my daughter, family, friends, and co-workers.