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As a dating and relationship coach since 2003, I’ve fielded thousands of questions. And, not surprisingly, many of those questions are the same question asked differently. Women routinely ask me if they’re too picky – if they should settle on a lack of chemistry. The answer, of course, is no. Women routinely ask me why men would have sex if they’re not interested in commitment. The answer, of course, is that it’s fun. Women routinely ask me if there are any quality men in their area because they’re positive there are not. The answer, of course, is that there are. Which leads me to today’s dating advice for women – the #1 question all my clients ask. WHERE CAN I FIND A CUTE, SMART, SUCCESSFUL, COMMITMENT-ORIENTED MAN? On this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer that question, once and for all. Stick around.
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90% of men on Online dating sites are “Worthless”.
Hate to break it to you but the quality of women and men in OLD is about the same.
@Evan – What makes 90% of men worthless? Is it your way of saying that 90% of guys a given woman might see online aren’t a suitable match, so they aren’t worth her time? Or is there some other reason why such a large number are undesirable?
@Mr_B – Similar question? Why do you say the quality of women online is so low? Is it because you don’t find them attractive or is there something really wrong with them?
I think there are a lot of men who are good people. I think there are a lot who are cute. I think there are a lot who are smart. I think there are a lot who are secure. I think there are a lot who are relationship oriented. I think there are a lot who are good communicators. I don’t there are a lot of guys who are all of the above.
Hey Evan, I just had my first wedding anniversary last month. I don’t think I ever told you that your products inspired me to leave the Catholic Church. I’d toyed with quitting for a while, but when your advice gave me a road map for dealing with the modern world on it’s terms I felt empowered to make that move. My parish had of a coterie of 38 – 45 year old female virgins who were still waiting for God to deposit handsome, successful, virgin Catholic men on their doorsteps. This in spite of their prayers, staunchly maintained virginity, and regular attendance of the same Catholic singles event with the same 4-5 perpetually single Catholic men. So thanks again!
@ Mr_B #2, I don’t disagree with you there. I’m sure you’re right. That having been said, most of the women here aren’t looking to date and marry other women. Evan set up his vocation to help women meet a good man. So it’s not that women believe we’re infallible, we’re just not looking for women.
I think Evan is being pretty rough on men here.
Men don’t seek sex because it is “fun”. Sure it is usually fun but we seek sex because that is our biology. Its called sex drive for a reason. We seek it out because every single bone and cell in our body craves it.
“Worthless” is a big word. Just because they don’t fit a certain criteria of what makes an ideal match online doesn’t make them worthless.