The check comes. It sits on the table. You wait for him to reach for it. You think he’s waiting for you to reach for it. You continue your strained end of meal conversation, wondering who is going to reach for it first. Who picks up the check is an emotionally fraught first date ritual that leaves a lot of people highly disappointed. Today, I’m going to explain to you what men should do and what women should do so that this never has to get weird for you again.

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