Ready To Find a Husband?

You can have the healthy relationship of your dreams at any age and you don’t have to change to do it. Just follow these six steps in my Love U Pyramid of Love…

Step 5: Relationships

Communication. Infidelity. Compatibility. While it would be nice to think that you have a natural understanding of these crucial topics, they are usually sore and sensitive subjects we tend to avoid. Not anymore. In Step 5 of Love U, you’ll learn how to connect with him, when to stay, when to go, and what a healthy relationship actually looks and feels like.

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Being Selective

2 Tests to Determine if He’s Worthy Of Being Your Boyfriend

Paulina is in her early 50’s — thin, blond, whip-smart, and sophisticated. She worked with me last year and came …

Relationships

Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.

Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot …

Dating

You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men

You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself …

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Dating

Why Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)

Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann …

Relationships

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until …

Being Selective

What’s the Difference Between Settling and Compromising?

Hi Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for the last few months and enjoying it a lot. Unlike some other …

How to Talk with Men

Communication is essential, yet most couples struggle with it. These articles help you communicate, set boundaries, and make men want to please you.

Do Millennials Lack Social Skills Because of Dating Apps and Texting?

How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later?

My Boyfriend is a Pothead but Will Quit If I Ask Him. Should I?

What’s Best Way to Let a Great Guy Know I’ve Chosen Someone Else?

What’s the Best Way to Discuss His Impotence?

How Can I Get My Boyfriend To Stop Sharing Private Details About Our Relationship?

Dating After Divorce: When Should I Disclose To My New Boyfriend That I’m Divorced?

(Video) Are Ignored Texts A Signal To Move On?

He Said “I Love You” on the Fifth Date and I’m Freaked Out!

What Should I Do About My Boyfriend’s Awful Taste in Friends?

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

When you’re in love, your judgment can easily get clouded. So if you’re on the fence about your relationship, read below to get clarity on what to do next.

My Live-In Boyfriend Doesn’t Contribute Equally To Our Joint Expenses, And I’m Starting To Resent Him

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Ask About My Life. Are We Doomed?

My Boyfriend Has Cheated on Me a Bunch of Times. Should I Marry Him?

My Boyfriend Sexted Another Woman. Should I Give Him Another Chance?

How Can I Change My Boyfriend Without Him Getting Upset That I’m Trying to Change Him?

How You Can Know When a Guy is NOT Right for You

How Do I Make My Boyfriend Want to Talk About Next Steps in Our Relationship?

Is My Guy Shit Testing Me?

My Boyfriend Wants to Marry Me, But He Is So Draining When We Fight.

Will Another 6 Months Make My Boyfriend Want Marriage and Kids?

Jealousy and Cheating

Have you been cheated on? Do you have a hard time trusting? Do you have a jealous boyfriend? Read below to trust and fix your broken patterns.

Can Your Relationship Survive After Cheating?

What is Cheating?

Why Facebook Is a Slippery Slope to Infidelity

What is Microcheating?

Am I the Crazy Overprotective Friend or Can a Man Completely Transform in 6 Months?

How to Stop Getting Jealous When Your Boyfriend Brings Up His Past

What Is the Definition of Cheating? Is Sexting Cheating?

My 40-Year Old Boyfriend Only Wants to Be Around 20-Year Olds. Will He Outgrow This Behavior?

I Hooked Up with My Boyfriend’s Buddy While On a Break.

My Boyfriend Shares An Apartment With His Ex But Says It’s Platonic. Should I Be Worried?

Compatibility

Compatibility isn’t how much you like each other or about common interests. It’s about how successfully you function as a team. Click below to learn more.

Here’s the Reason You’ll Never Be Satisfied With Your Partner

Is My Boyfriend Hypersensitive or Am I Too Insensitive?

Can A Relationship Be Successful When You Go from Living Together to Living Apart?

My Boyfriend Is Great But He Talks Baby Talk. What’s That All About?

I Never Wanted Kids But I’m Falling For A Woman With A Child and Rethinking Everything. Help!

We Can’t Talk About Religion or Politics. Can This Be Fixed?

If He Loves Me, Why Is He Withholding Personal Information?

Can I Be Compatible With My Boyfriend If We Are Competitive?

Why Nagging Women and Silent Men Drive Each Other Crazy

Are You A Good Partner? Probably Not.

How Much Do I Have to Compromise

You’ve compromised for love. The question is whether your compromises are making you happy or miserable. These articles explain further.

Should I Ask My Boyfriend to See a Therapist for His Issues?

Am I Being Selfish Wanting My Boyfriend to Show Me More Love and Affection?

My Boyfriend Puts His Child Before Me — What Should I Do?

Was I Wrong in Trying to Help My Guy Become a Better Conversationalist?

My Boyfriend Is A Jewish Atheist And Wants His Children Raised Jewish. Should I Convert?

My Boyfriend Asked Me To Watch His Dog Over Christmas Instead of Inviting Me to Join His Family. WTF?

Should I Text Him?

How Close Should My Boyfriend Be With His Ex?

My Boyfriend is a Verbally Abusive, Physically Abusive, Emotionally Abusive, Sexually Unfaithful Man. What Should I Do?

How Could I Be a Better Girlfriend?

It’s one thing to attract a quality man; it’s another thing to make him want to commit. Keep reading to discover how to be an amazing partner.

Are You Wrong for Wanting a No-Drama Relationship?

Are You a Good Listener?

I Want My Boyfriend to Show Me More Support and Affection

Can Women Be Awful, Too?

Do You Know How to Fight Fairly With Your Partner? You Should.

What’s Best Way to Express My Needs to My Boyfriend?

What Can I Do to Make My Boyfriend Feel Better About Himself?

Can A Girlfriend Be Too Good To Her Boyfriend?

What Not To Do in Relationships

Do You Look Down On Others?

Why It’s So Hard to Find a Healthy Partner

There are millions of men. Most don’t have what it takes to make you happy for life. Click below to learn how to choose from the top 10% of men.

Do You Envy People with Perfect Love Lives? You’re Not Alone

How Can a Shy Introvert Become More Approachable?

Is It Wrong to Expect A Boyfriend to Help Me With Laborious Tasks?

My Boyfriend Wants to Marry Me But Doesn’t Want to Buy an Engagement Ring.

Why Can’t Men Breakup in A Respectful Way?

How Can I Tell My Clingy Boyfriend He’s Driving Me Crazy Without Pushing Him Away?

I’m in a Relationship With a Great Guy Who Just Won’t Change. What Should I Do?

Fear and Insecurity in Relationships

Two things undermine all relationships: fear and insecurity. If you’re afraid of intimacy, rejection, or commitment, you must read these articles to get happy.

How To Have A Difficult Conversation With Your Partner

Are You Suffering From Relationship Anxiety? Read This.

How to Disagree with Your Partner and Still Remain Civil

Can I Ask My Boyfriend for a Timeline to Get Engaged?

What Can I Do About the Stressful Living Arrangement with My Boyfriend and His Children?

Do You Trust Other People?

How Do I Answer “Why Haven’t You Ever Been Married?”

My Ex Left Me With A Large Debt And I Don’t Know How to Explain It.

Are You Anxious, Avoidant or Secure?

My Insecure Boyfriend Is Trying to Scare Me Off of All Men Besides Him

Sex and Attraction Within Your Relationship

Attraction is what starts a relationship but attraction also changes over time. Read below to learn what’s “normal” and how you can keep attraction alive.

How Can I Get My Boyfriend to Understand I Love Him But Don’t Always Want to Have Sex?

How You Can Be a Better Partner – And Bring Out a Better Partner In Return

7 Sex Problems that Could Ruin Your Relationship

Is Polyamory a Viable and Healthy Relationship Choice?

How Can I Get My Boyfriend to Understand I Love Him But Don’t Always Want to Have Sex?

I’m In Love With A Starving Artist With Low Libido – What Should I Do?

How To Worship A Woman Without Freaking Her Out

Should I Be Worried About My Husband’s Facebook Crush On His High School Fling?

Former Escort and Post-Op Transsexual Wants Her Understanding Boyfriend to Be More Ambitious.

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?

Relationship Studies

Social science teaches what to expect in relationships. As a data-driven dating coach, I wrote these articles to help you make smarter choices in love.