Ready To Find a Husband?
You can have the healthy relationship of your dreams at any age and you don’t have to change to do it. Just follow these six steps in my Love U Pyramid of Love…
Step 5: Relationships
2 Tests to Determine if He’s Worthy Of Being Your Boyfriend
Paulina is in her early 50’s — thin, blond, whip-smart, and sophisticated. She worked with me last year and came …
Relationships Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex.
Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now, and I’ve started to notice a trend with a lot …
You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men
You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself …
Why Women Shouldn’t Pursue Sex (According to Science, Not Me!)
Sex is a fun topic to write about and I’ve written a LOT about it. But this piece by Ann …
Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You’re Looking for a Long Term Relationship?
Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until …
What’s the Difference Between Settling and Compromising?
Hi Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for the last few months and enjoying it a lot. Unlike some other …
How to Talk with Men
Communication is essential, yet most couples struggle with it. These articles help you communicate, set boundaries, and make men want to please you.
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
When you’re in love, your judgment can easily get clouded. So if you’re on the fence about your relationship, read below to get clarity on what to do next.
Jealousy and Cheating
Have you been cheated on? Do you have a hard time trusting? Do you have a jealous boyfriend? Read below to trust and fix your broken patterns.
Compatibility
Compatibility isn’t how much you like each other or about common interests. It’s about how successfully you function as a team. Click below to learn more.
How Much Do I Have to Compromise
You’ve compromised for love. The question is whether your compromises are making you happy or miserable. These articles explain further.
How Could I Be a Better Girlfriend?
It’s one thing to attract a quality man; it’s another thing to make him want to commit. Keep reading to discover how to be an amazing partner.
Why It’s So Hard to Find a Healthy Partner
There are millions of men. Most don’t have what it takes to make you happy for life. Click below to learn how to choose from the top 10% of men.
Fear and Insecurity in Relationships
Two things undermine all relationships: fear and insecurity. If you’re afraid of intimacy, rejection, or commitment, you must read these articles to get happy.
Sex and Attraction Within Your Relationship
Attraction is what starts a relationship but attraction also changes over time. Read below to learn what’s “normal” and how you can keep attraction alive.
Relationship Studies
Social science teaches what to expect in relationships. As a data-driven dating coach, I wrote these articles to help you make smarter choices in love.
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