Understanding Men Archives - Dating Coach - Evan Marc Katz

Understanding Men

I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

Why Stereotypes Are (Partially But Not Totally) True

Are Stereotypes About Men and Women True?

In many cases, the stereotype is spot on. In plenty of cases, it’s not. That’s why we judge people as individuals, not as groups.

Why single men and women are more politically extreme

They say the personal is political. One look at the news – or the comments section on this blog – and it would be hard to deny.

Why Are Men So Affected by Career Issues?

I think because men are wired a little differently, they are often willing to run into the arms of a nurturing woman even if the man is feeling fat, sad, or overwrought. These guys may not be ready for commitment but they are more than willing to find some sex and emotional support to get them through their tough times.

Why Do Men Get Serious So Fast?

Please don’t do this. I agree with you in principle, as I wrote above. That doesn’t mean you should advertise it. “Moving slowly” or “Friends first” is easily read as “I’m fearful. I have issues with trust and sex. You won’t get laid for at least a few months.” You can move slow, but don’t take away the thrill of the chase by explaining this in your profile.

Why Progressive and Religious Marriages Are Similar – and Better – Than Others

How You Can Be a Better Partner - And Bring Out a Better Partner In Return

That describes my marriage entirely. My wife had the same job for 16 years and loved it. Then she got pregnant. She asked for a 3-month maternity leave. Then she asked for a 3-month extension. Then she told her boss she was going on “Eternity Leave.”

My Fiance May Be an Alcoholic. Should I Stay with Him?

First is how much you trust him as a man, a human being, and your future husband. If you believe in him because he did the right thing three years ago, I don’t think it’s a terrible idea to loosen the rules a little bit. If it becomes a problem, you always have the right to walk away from the relationship…

Are Men Too Lonely? Are Women Too Judgmental? Yes!!

Honestly, if either of the two genders was looking for a partner to “have it all,” couldn’t we agree that it’s women? Contrast that with my job, talking to women every day for 16 years and you’ll quickly realize that these cute, nice and accepting won’t get you anywhere with my clients.