Understanding Men

I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.

Dating Men With Kids: Good Or Bad Idea?

So, you’re thinking of dating a single Dad. Maybe you’re a woman with her own children who is worried about integrating families. Maybe you’re a woman who wants her…

Why Do Men Ghost You (And What to Do About It)

You ever have a really strong connection with a guy? The attraction is incredible. He’s really into you. You can’t stop thinking about him. He quickly becomes your boyfriend. You haven’t been this excited in a long time. You start to think about a future. Next thing you know, he suddenly stops contacting you. You’ve been ghosted.

How Vulnerability Makes Men Fall In Love With You

As a smart, strong, successful woman, you have a full single life, filled with work, friends, family, and hobbies. Yet this isn’t your primary strength when it comes to dating. If you don’t let men it’s hard for them to make an emotional connection.

Five Questions To Consider When Dating A New Guy

Have you ever been afraid that the next guy is going to turn out just like the last guy? If so, I’m going to give you a five-step process to evaluate if he’s worth your time BEFORE you get in too deep. You’re gonna want a pen for this one.

8 Red Flags That Should Send You Running From A Man

Are you tired of wasting your time on the wrong men? Listen to the story of two of my Love U clients – one too passive, one too picky – to discover the 8 things men say that should be instant dealbreakers. Want to save YEARS of your life? Listen to this Love U Podcast.

My Boyfriend Is Not As Interested In Me As He Was In The First Few Months.

woman getting annoyed by boyfriend talking on the phone

Any woman who clings to a relationship in hopes that it returns to the bliss of the first three months is at high risk for a lifetime of disappointment.

I Am A Cancer Survivor and Am Afraid This Will Scare off Men.

You should be living gloriously in the present and actively seeking a man who wants to share it all with you.

I’m Stuck In A Miserable Marriage And I’m Afraid To Leave

wife thinking about divorce because of a high gap in salary with husband

how much is your happiness worth? Is happiness being a prisoner in your home? Or is happiness having the freedom to reinvent your life from scratch?

I Feel Threatened By My Boyfriend’s Ex And Worry He Doesn’t See Me As A Wife.

I’m Dating a Man Who Dated a Model and I’m Feeling Really Insecure

The thing to pay attention to right now is not whether he’s guaranteed to be your husband, but rather, how you feel with him. In a good relationship, you don’t always know he’s the one. But in a failing relationship, you pretty much always know when he’s not.