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A good relationship is easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.Your entire life, you’ve tried to fit a square peg in a round hole. For years, you’ve fallen for men and tried to justify why they were a long-term fit, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
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What? You didn’t get a chance to watch my Facebook Live on Thursday? Was it because you were too busy? Was it because you had too much work? Listen, I understand that a smart, busy woman like you has a life outside of me. Still, you missed out on some really powerful stuff.
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Time is running out! Okay, so that’s a bit of an overstatement. Time isn’t running out. You can find love at 38, 48, 58, 68 or 78. I see proof of this every day from happy readers and clients. But, as you already recognize from, dating DOES get tougher as you get older…
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“Finding the One Online” prompted me to get professional photos taken and to rewrite my dating profile. As a result, not a week went by without men on Match, Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid telling me my profile was the best they’d ever read.
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No more loneliness. No more frustration. No more embarrassment. No more anxiety. Soon, you will feel connected, knowing you are loved by a man who will do anything to make you happy.
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Many of you wrote back to tell me how much those lessons resonated – and how painful it is to look back at all the crap you’ve put up with from men. But there’s a big difference between realizing you’ve acted insecure in the past…
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If you’ve been at your job for over ten years, you’re probably “unconsciously competent” at it. As a dating coach for the past fifteen years, I’d like to think that describes me as well.
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It’s generally not my style to link to other advice columnists, but my friend, Lori Gottlieb, author of the new book,”Maybe You Should Talk to Someone” does such an incredible job that it feels like a dereliction of duty to keep her to myself.
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There are the sexually liberated women who have sex with men and are disappointed when sex doesn’t lead to a relationship. Advice: stop having sex with men who aren’t your boyfriend.
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“There can be no question, ever, that the victims suffer more than the perpetrators. However, if we are to make any significant progress on this monumental societal problem, the perpetrators must learn to be unflinchingly honest with themselves and those around them. That requires the trust that their tentative efforts won’t be belittled.”
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He emailed me, he called me, he asked for a date, he called back, he contacts me everyday, he took down his profile first, he stopped dating the other women he was dating and asked me to “date exclusively” because he wants to focus on getting to know me better. All I did was say yes.
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.
If you’re looking to answer your most pressing dating and relationship question, my blog is like Google for your love life!
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