100 Reasons I Love You

I’m a writer. I can’t say whether I’m any good. All I can say is that I’m prolific. I wrote the comedy column in my college newspaper. I wrote a dozen screenplays and 15 sitcoms when I moved to LA in my twenties.

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

Hey Evan! I’m dealing with an issue that I can’t find explicitly addressed on one of your old posts, so I thought I’d write and see if you can help. I am 38, and divorced three years. I am looking for a relationship, but perfectly happy with my life in the meantime.

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What is Cheating?

Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?

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When You Should Break Up with a Guy (Hint: NOW May Be a Good Idea!)

I like Sophia Benoit from GQ. Her prose doesn’t descend to the levels of most first-person journalism you’d read in EliteDaily or Elephant Journal. This piece, simply called “When to Walk Away From a Bad Relationship,” is something I wholeheartedly endorse as one of the few dating coaches who believe it’s better to find an easy relationship than it is to double down on fixing a broken one.

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