Blog - Evan Marc Katz | Understand Men. Find Love.

Giving thanks (and a $50 coupon) to you…

I’ve been fortunate to have had thousands of success stories, but, believe it or not, my greatest satisfaction doesn’t come from client weddings. My purest joy comes from witnessing…

Why Some Women Find Love and Others Do Not

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100 Reasons I Love You

I’m a writer. I can’t say whether I’m any good. All I can say is that I’m prolific. I wrote the comedy column in my college newspaper. I wrote a dozen screenplays and 15 sitcoms when I moved to LA in my twenties.

My Boyfriend of 8 Years Doesn’t Want to Move In with Me

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now. We have been talking about buying a house together for 3 years now and every time we see something, he backs out. Because of financial reasons he always says, but he can buy a house on his own.

Redefining White Male Privilege So White Men Don’t Get Upset

I made a conscious choice to stay away from the Kavanagh hearings, given the toxicity of the political climate. But recently, I’ve had a few dispiriting conversations with friends who…

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

Hey Evan! I’m dealing with an issue that I can’t find explicitly addressed on one of your old posts, so I thought I’d write and see if you can help. I am 38, and divorced three years. I am looking for a relationship, but perfectly happy with my life in the meantime.

What is Cheating?

Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?

I’m Upset That My Non-Boyfriend Isn’t Acting Like My Boyfriend

I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. He has worked out of the country for 2 of those three months and just got back home this week. While he was away he called me or texted me everyday, was very attentive and made the effort to keep in contact since he was on the other side of the world.

When You Should Break Up with a Guy (Hint: NOW May Be a Good Idea!)

I like Sophia Benoit from GQ. Her prose doesn’t descend to the levels of most first-person journalism you’d read in EliteDaily or Elephant Journal. This piece, simply called “When to Walk Away From a Bad Relationship,” is something I wholeheartedly endorse as one of the few dating coaches who believe it’s better to find an easy relationship than it is to double down on fixing a broken one.

Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?

I met a great guy on Match two months ago and we’ve been spending a good amount of time together since. We have great conversation, and have fun together no matter what we do. He values me for who I am, and it feels great that I can completely be myself around him.