Relationships take work. You heard this from your parents, your friends, couples counselors, and dating gurus. You believed that it was true because, for you, indeed relationships have taken a lot of work. But what if this isn’t true? What if “relationships take work” is the biggest lie you’ve ever been told?
70% of arguments with your partner are the same argument. If that’s the case, you need a different way of approaching things to get a different result. Your relationship doesn’t need to be a constant source of tension but it will be unless you learn a new way of approaching relationship discord.
I generally have a belief that, as we get older, we get smarter. After all, there’s no substitute for life experience, and can’t we all look back at ourselves from…
He’s seeing you regularly. You’re sleeping with him. He’s acting almost like a boyfriend but he’s not your boyfriend. Welcome to one of the world’s most common dating dilemmas. Join me on this Love U Podcast to discover how to avoid this trap in the future and ensure that any man you’re sleeping with is your boyfriend FIRST.
So, back in the day, they used to make romantic comedies. They made us laugh, they made us cry, they made us watch them again and again. But occasionally, one of these movies had a valuable lesson to teach. In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to talk about two romcoms and how a few scenes from them can help you find your husband. Literally.
I have the privilege of talking to some pretty extraordinary women each day. Maggie is 40, African-American, worldly, classy, and, by her own admission, not that great at the guy thing.
If you’re single, all of your romantic relationships ended. That devastating truth may cause you to mistrust your own judgment and assume all your future relationships are doomed to fail as well. But are they? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a Love U graduate who realized she was NOT doomed to repeat her tortured history and broke free of her past.
You ever have a really strong connection with a guy? The attraction is incredible. He’s really into you. You can’t stop thinking about him. He quickly becomes your boyfriend. You haven’t been this excited in a long time. You start to think about a future. Next thing you know, he suddenly stops contacting you. You’ve been ghosted.
Do you find that you’re attracted to the “wrong” people? Do you ever wonder why you’re drawn in a direction that isn’t healthy for you? Do you ever wonder what you can do differently? If so, keep reading, and you’ll see how simple it is to turn your love life around.
"Hang in there if you are feeling despair — if this 60 year old English professor can find love, I suspect you can too!"
I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.
"Now I feel empowered and I am glad to be free of him, to find the one who will love me without question."
I learned, through reading “Why He Disappeared”, that because of the fact that he did not commit to me, I really didn't want him back. I realized that I needed to find the man who would love me unconditionally for who I am, not for who he wanted me to be.
“I will never have to settle for a less than fabulous relationship ever again.”
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
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