Was just on CBS Early Show and had a blast, as usual. Julie Chen was super nice and made getting up at 3:30am well worth it. As for the "debate"? Well, it's morning news, so there's only so deep you can go. Too bad we didn't have a full hour to really get in there. I had about three anecdotes about clients lying about their age that I didn't get a chance to use.
1) My 54-year-old male client who had electric chemistry with a woman on a first date. After an hour of making out with her, he was fully smitten. Called her the next day, where she confessed that she wasn't 54 herself. When asked how old she was, she said "Let's just say I'm in my sixties". They never would have met had she told the truth up front.
2) My 71-year-old female client who is on a crew team but has never confessed her age, because she doesn't want to feel "different" than everyone else. She likes fitting in and sees no need to call attention to her age.
3) Just yesterday, my 44-year-old client, who, upon hearing about my upcoming CBS appearance, started to rail against guys who lie about their age. Yet when we logged onto her old JDate profile, she audibly gasped. "Ohmigod. I guess I lied about my age, too".
So while I would never go and call myself an "advocate" of lying, I would say that we should reserve judgment. There's a difference between a serial fabricator and a woman who is insecure that telling the truth will lead to age discrimination. At least that's what I would have said, if I had more time.
But the best part of the interview was the one in which I didn't speak (ha!) It was when Julie asked the male anchors whether they'd date an older woman. Their non-answers speak for themselves.