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Happy Clients "I feel very fortunate that I gave him a chance and that he's in my life. The best part is that there is NO DRAMA!" “Why He Disappeared” made me feel like I was in control of my love life and that it was not in control of me. Now I'm VERY happy with myself and my relationship. I can relax and not stress about the future, I'm enjoying the here and now and its so much FUN!
"Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months." You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
"Evan, you’re amazing. You’re changing a little corner of the world in a very special way." The thing that I most love about Dan is that I can be myself around him. At 52 years old, I’ve never felt that way with any man I’ve dated… I believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. Don’t give up!
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I wonder if the level of understanding reflected in the satires contributes to better relationships in those couples.
“I never clean! NO! WAY!” HA HA!!
“I hate talking. NO! WAY!” LMAO!!
I really don’t think there are any guys like that. 😛
Hilarious.
Do guys actually act like this? They seriously joke with each other about hitting girls? That’s not cool. I’d like to hear from the guys how much is accurate in this video.
Helen said: (#4)
“I’d like to hear from the guys how much is accurate in this video.”
Accurate:
They’re not interested in talking on the phone during the game.
They don’t understand why you’re asking what he’s doing during a football game.
They didn’t see anything that dirty around the house/apartment before you cleaned it.
They say women are crazy (and sometimes believe it).
Everything else is at least an exaggeration, usually an over-the-top exaggeration. Some of it is completely wrong. Guys aren’t going to talk about relationships while the football is in play. Maybe during the commercial break. And the only place I’ve seen guys cheer a Bud Light commercial is in a Bud Light commercial.
Helen asked: (#4)
“They seriously joke with each other about hitting girls?”
If a guy says he wanted to hit a girl/woman, he’s not joking. He’s explaining the degree to which she managed to enrage him. And his buddy is going to remind him that it’s not something you do (that part was reasonably accurate).
Karl R #5, thank you for the clarifications!