(Video) The Secret to Getting a Man to Love You

You and I may disagree on a few things, but I hope we can agree on this:

Some people live in a black and white world, but the world is not black and white.

Believe me, I understand the appeal of black and white thinking.

It’s simpler. It’s cleaner. You don’t have to understand anyone else’s feelings.

All you know is if someone disagrees with you, he’s WRONG.

The problem, of course, is that black and white thinking creates friction out in the real world, where there are a lot of bright, ethical people with different worldviews.

I was thinking about this when I was making the Need vs. Needy video I shared a couple of days ago.

I was well aware that I could potentially offend some black and white thinkers, but it was too important to me to present a more nuanced view about the concept of need.

In short, everyone has needs.

If your needs are excessive, you may unintentionally come across as “needy” – which is usually unattractive and draining.

Ready for Lasting Love?
Ready for Lasting Love?

Thus, the most effective way to be with a man is “vulnerable.” Being vulnerable allows you to share your thoughts and feelings openly without driving men away.

Thus, the most effective way to be with a man is “vulnerable.” Being vulnerable allows you to share your thoughts and feelings openly without driving men away.

Since you value vulnerability in men – as opposed to weak men or standoffish men – it’s important to recognize that men value vulnerability, too.

Once you lead with trust, authenticity, and vulnerability, you will attract more men, connect with more men, and be able to find a boyfriend fast.

There’s only one problem about finding a boyfriend fast.

You have no idea where your story is going to end up.

It’s not that hard to find a guy who’s willing to sleep with you regularly.

It is much harder to find a guy who treats you consistently well over the long haul.

That’s why I’ve made another video that addresses some of the most timeless questions you have when you’re dating someone seriously.

  •      What is my boyfriend thinking?
  •      How can I make my boyfriend want to commit to me?
  •      I refuse to settle on the wrong man, but why is it so hard to find the right one?

Where my first video covered the first three pillars of Love U Pyramid of Love: Confidence, Meeting Men and Dating, this one talks about what happens AFTER you finally meet a great guy.

These tips are from the second half of Love U, where I cover Understanding Men, Relationships, and Commitment.

If you’ve found all three hard to come by, I can’t wait to show you how to turn your love life around right now.

To experience the joy of having a cute guy find you wildly attractive…

To have a partner who does what he says and says what he means…

To relax around the man who makes you feel safe, heard and understood…

If you want to turn the corner on the failures of your past, click here to watch my 2nd video with 3 more tips from Love U.

At the bottom of the page, you’ll see a button to join my upcoming Facebook Live, “How You Can Attract Better Men and Get the Right One to Fall in Love With You.”

Just click on that button to join me next week for a life-changing event that will give you all the tools you need to find the man of your dreams.


No more loneliness. No more frustration. No more embarrassment. No more anxiety. Soon, you will feel connected, knowing you are loved by a man who will do anything to make you happy.

Enjoy the video! And don’t forget to click below the video to join me for a live video presentation on how to make the right man fall in love with you.

Warmest wishes and much love,

Your friend,


P.S. Zoe finally learned to understand men. Here is the result:

Before Evan, I thought that if I had a great date with a guy, then it meant that he wanted me in his life. I thought that if there was immediate chemistry and attraction and good conversation, then we were meant to be together. I thought that it was perfectly all right for me to remind a man that I existed in between dates, by texting, calling, emailing, and checking up on him via the dating website. I thought that the best way to be happy in a relationship was to keep the man on a short leash. Unfortunately, none of these beliefs were getting me the sort of results I wanted in my dating life. It had been over a decade since my last satisfying relationship and I had nearly resigned myself to being alone and unhappy for the rest of my life.

From listening to Evan, I learned that men will do what they want to do and my nagging, complaining, and harping will not get him to change his mind or his behavior. What it will do is create distance and cause him to feel unsafe/unhappy around me, leading to his withdrawal. I learned that when a man is really into you, he’ll be thinking about you, calling you, eager to see you again, and generally keeping well in touch in between dates. He’ll be interested to learn more about you, as a person. Even though he’s anxious for it, he’ll wait for sex. He’ll respond to appreciation and acceptance. He’s not commitmentphobic.

I have to say that I am in the most satisfying relationship I have ever had and I owe it all to Evan’s coaching. I have been challenged to examine my beliefs about relationships and about men and about myself. I have been urged to step up my communication and meet my man at the level of honesty that he is proposing. I have been gently reproved. I am in an exclusive relationship with a man who is always happy to see me, who treats me like a lady, and who welcomes me into every aspect of his life, unreservedly. He tells everyone how happy he is with me. I feel completely accepted by him and I look forward to more time with him.

Zoe F.

You want a man who tells everyone how happy he is with you?

This is how you get him.