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The world is changing rapidly. When I started dating online in 1997, I was one of the first people to do so (much less admit it). I started on Matchmaker.com, followed by Match, JDate and a host of others.
Once upon a time – back in 2001, when I was working for JDate – this would have been my dream come true. Telling funny, true, relatable dating stories that had the potential to teach a lesson and reach a wide audience? Sign me up as a writer!
I’ve long had the opportunity – and many requests – to do this for clients. I have refused every time. While it may seem like a negligible difference, in my opinion, there is a clear dividing line between offering advice on how to write to men and actually writing to men themselves.
Something that would take our need for love, sex, attention, affection and validation and turn it into a dopamine heightening video game that we can play anytime, anywhere, with little to no thought beyond whether someone is hot or not.
You ever here someone say, “Dating sucks in (fill-in-your-city-here)” I do every day. I’ve written, ad nauseum, about the value of connection, of slowing down a beat, of screening men prior to first dates, to using conversation instead of text as a primary form of communication.
It was inevitable. After twenty years of online dating sites competing for eyeballs, only to return a subpar experience, Facebook …
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"This I know for sure: Do what you need to do heal your wounds and limiting beliefs, follow Evan's advice to a T, and the rest will fall into place - I promise!"
Love is possible for everyone. I get it now! I use to be so jaded about love and now I am a bonafide hopeless romantic.
"Love wins! All I had to do was stop doing everything I had done before and open myself to a great man!"
"I started following your advice like adhering to a recipe for the perfect crème brûlée...And I'm happy to report that 6 months ago I married my best friend!"
"Two years ago, we got married at 80—and couldn’t be happier."
"This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring - we'll get married later next year."
"Once I started taking Evan’s advice seriously, it took me six months to find the “one.” You can too!"
"I did not need to pretend to be someone else, act in a seductive way, or play games to attract my fiance’s attention."
"Evan taught me how to look for the right things instead of chasing after an illusion of a perfect man. Last month, we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary."
"You have to be bold because nothing in life worth having isn’t without some measure of risk."
"I've recently celebrated my two-year anniversary with my husband"
"Blake are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him."
"I was drawn to Evan's coaching because I really wanted to find the right guy and build a meaningful relationship. And as a starting point I just wanted to enjoy the dating process!"
"Right now, I’m on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work."
"Taking your group class was the best $ I ever spent!!"
"I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online."
"I have a mature, supportive, satisfying, committed relationship, and I am so happy."
Regardless of how women want to go about finding the relationship they want and need, you are the one to help them find it... Thank you so much for everything!!
"I learned that men are not scared by strong and successful women but actually like them."
"I now live the life of my dreams and with the man of my dreams by my side as my husband."
"I wish everyone could do Love U. I’ll continue to back Evan because I feel as though he’s the best dating coach out there by far."
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