My 12th Anniversary Message To You

You know that he may not be inherently evil, but he’s simply incapable of giving you the consistent love, support, and compassion you need. If you know you’re yearning for someone stable and kind who puts you first – instead of wasting more time on a toxic narcissist – you know what you have to do.

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The ONLY Kind Of Man You Should Marry

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Were you ever in a draining relationship in which you felt that you gave too much? Have you considered that you should probably give less to your partner in the future? It’s a painful problem, but giving less isn’t the solution. Choosing a better partner is.

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The Most Important Thing You Can Learn from Old, Married Couples

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Evidently, the secret of life is something that folks have been looking for a long, long time. Now, I’m not going to claim to know the secret of life – not yet, anyway – but I’m pretty sure I know the secret to a long-term relationship. It starts with learning from the wisdom of people who are different than you are – old married couples…

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Should We Get Rid of Marriage Altogether?

Should We Get Rid of Marriage Altogether?

Catron does make a valid case – made by Eli Finkel in The All Or Nothing Marriage – that we expect too much from marriage. One person is now supposed to provide what an entire community provided in the past. She’s right. And it’s why choosing the right spouse is literally the most important decision you’ll ever make.

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How to Open Up Your Relationship

How to Open Up Your Relationship

I was going to write more about the six important steps that the author used to make this lifestyle choice work for him, but to me, the existence of such an article is all the proof I need that “open” relationships require WAY too much work for my taste.

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