Did you know that nearly 1/5 of all marriages start from online dating? Did you know that I wrote a bestselling book about online dating and have written more profiles than anyone in the world? Did you know that if you’ve tried online dating and hated it, that there are a hundred things you can do better to attract more men and higher quality men? Click the below articles to learn more.
You ever here someone say, “Dating sucks in (fill-in-your-city-here)” I do every day. I’ve written, ad nauseum, about the value of connection, of slowing down a beat, of screening men prior to first dates, to using conversation instead of text as a primary form of communication.
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I’ve gotten a lot of flak on YouTube for my No More Bad Dates TEDx Talk, in which I lay out my keenly observed theories that. Most people’s online dating profiles suck.
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Hi Evan, I follow your 2-2-2 rule, which is great, but I’ve had a couple of awkward moments and need your advice: during the screening phone call, if it’s not going well and I decide I don’t want to meet in person, how do I tell the guy without hurting his feelings??
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I am so discouraged by online dating. Seems after 1-2 exchanges, men get vulgar and aggressively sexual. If you retreat, they call you uptight and dump you. I don’t…
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It was inevitable. After twenty years of online dating sites competing for eyeballs, only to return a subpar experience, Facebook recently dropped the bomb that it’s getting into the dating…
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This blog is a public service where I get the opportunity to write about all things dating-related. However, writing about is not necessarily endorsing. Thus, today’s blog post on Instagram as…
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One of the most common questions I’ve gotten in my fifteen years as a dating coach is just about the hardest to answer? “What’s the best dating app?” “What’s the best…
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I live in the Pacific Northwest which naturally attracts a lot of outdoorsy and athletic men, often with beards. We call them lumbersexuals. I’m not outdoorsy, and have honestly never…
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I’m a 28-year old woman and just like most of your readers, I’ve had good luck in life in general but not so much with men. I hope to meet…
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There have never been more ways to meet people – online dating sites, dating apps, social media, Meetups, and the old standards of school, work, church, bars, and parties. Yet…
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Thanks to Evan, I finally feel like I'm exactly where I want to be in life. The future is wide open and bright, and I found a rare gem to cherish. I thank Evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process!
You didn't always tell me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. You were honest with me even when I didn't like it. You put a mirror to my face...no one enjoys that but it's important if you really want to make a change and find the real thing.
It's only been 106 days, Evan, but they have been the BEST 106 days of my life! Thank you for leading me in the right direction, giving me the confidence to believe in myself and helping me find the love I deserve.
You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
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