Ready To Find a Husband?

You can have the healthy relationship of your dreams at any age and you don’t have to change to do it. Just follow these six steps in my Love U Pyramid of Love…

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The art of choosing a boyfriend amidst the losers, flakes, and players.

Before you take your profile down and go all-in on a guy, it’s important to know that he’s worth your commitment. Click below and I’ll show you how to tell.

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The Secret To Having Fun While Dating. It’s Not So Secret…

Anna is a client who needs a hug (or three). She’s 46, slim, attractive, successful – my typical client – but there’s a sadness about her. Maybe you can understand. Anna didn’t picture her life turning out this way.

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I’ve Made A Million Mistakes and My Boyfriend Is Still Here. What Now?

Personality – from my reading and observation – is a lot more nature than nurture. This is not to suggest that people can’t grow and evolve, but rather, their basic personalities stay largely the same. Introverts rarely turn into extroverts. Narcissists rarely turn into humble servants. Cheaters rarely turn into faithful partners. And so on.

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Orbiting. Another Dating Problem Created By Social Media.

The first iPhone would be released later that year. Texting was around but it wasn’t ubiquitous. Same with Facebook. Instagram came around in 2010. Tinder didn’t launch until 2012. And here we are, as lonely and disconnected as ever. Social media sites that were designed to connect us now cause an equal amount of pain and confusion.

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Why Good Relationships Are Easy (And Bad Relationships Take Work!)

A good relationship is easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.Your entire life, you’ve tried to fit a square peg in a round hole. For years, you’ve fallen for men and tried to justify why they were a long-term fit, despite all the evidence to the contrary.

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Why Short-Term Pessimism and Long-Term Optimism Is The Only Way to Date

You may have heard me talk about short-term pessimism and long-term optimism. I mention it in my Believe in Love …

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Before I Get Married, A Shout-Out to All the Men I’ve Loved Before

For some people, life is just a series of dogs. For me, life has been a series of romantic relationships. Maggie Parker would seem to feel the same way. In her New York Times Modern Love column, she pens an ode to all of her exes after she finally got engaged.