Janis P.

"I have met a man I can only describe as practically perfect."

Before reading Evan’s books, newsletters and blogs, I was still struggling, 12 years after a divorce from a serial adulterer, to stick up for myself.  When I’d date an emotionally distant guy, I kept wanting to believe that because he contacted me after a week or two that I must be on his mind, there must still be something there, I kept hoping.

I kept justifying it all by thinking I didn’t want to be a Drama Queen and I didn’t know how to tell if he was interested in me but just exhibiting “guy behavior”.

Evan’s info gave me the understanding that if a guy is interested in you, he will want to be with you, he will call when he says he will call, he will make sure he arranges time to spend with you.

Evan’s straight talk was a bucket of cold water in my face.  I actually laughed at how I was the one allowing myself to be treated like that.  It was so incredibly empowering and freeing to know I had been my own worst enemy all along.  The result was I said “This kind of treatment is over – TODAY”.  I have since met a man I can only describe as practically perfect.  He wants to be with me all the time, he is crazy about me, he constantly has his arm around me or we are holding hands – he wants everyone to know I am with him.  When I say I need down time to be at home alone and chill, he says he understands, he needs it too, then we are refreshed and ready to spend more great time together.  He’s amazing.

This makes me feel on top of the world and honestly, a little mystified. Can this be real? For so long I’ve gone for the charismatic, handsome A-type and had my heart crushed.  My wonderful new guy is everything I thought couldn’t possibly exist.  And he is still handsome, talented, caring, smart, responsible, dependable, the list goes on and on!

Janis P.