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Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.

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What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

I hear this question every single day. And I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer I can give you that everyone will agree with

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Yes, Looks Matter With First Impressions (But That’s Not All…)

Neat article in Business Insider confirms what most of us already suspect: Looks matter. Clothes matter. Non-verbal cues matter. Eye contact matters. Perception matters.

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Why Am I Not Attracted to Any Guys?

My sister is a beautiful, smart, and funny 29-year-old woman. She wants to get married and have a family someday, but her problem is that she’s not attracted to anyone.

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How You Can Create a Positive Friend Network Starting Now

Right before I got married, I had a therapist who told me something I never forgot.“Evan,” he said, “life is just a big hunk of Swiss cheese. The problem is that you only look at the holes and never even notice the cheese.”

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I Followed Your Dating Advice for the First Time and WOW!

I am a long time reader. I am a tall, educated, beyond athletic, attractive woman who is successful and age 42. I entered college to get my higher level degrees later in life, and my classmates assumed I was in my 20s (whilst in my late 30s) and I was asked out often by them

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Are There Ways to Improve Compatibility in a Relationship?

My boyfriend and I are both 31 years old and have been dating for 3 years. Recently I moved back to my hometown to finish school. I only have 8…

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If He Doesn’t Feel Chemistry, Does It Mean He Won’t Marry Me?

When we met, we were both coming out of horrible break ups and so we developed a friendship and a safe place for talking about our past or anything we…

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My Husband and I Have a Comfortable Marriage Without Sex.

I am married to an honest, loyal and trustworthy man. However, we are not intimate in any way and there is no chemistry. At one point, we went over four…

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Do Women Trade On Their Looks To Get Men With Money?

Rich men, beautiful women. It’s sort of a cliche, right? Ugly old man, young blonde gold digger. The Millionaire Matchmaker. Men make money to get hot women. Women try to…

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I Think I Just Met My Soulmate. How Can I Know If It’s Real?

First let me say, I am in no way shape or form a “creeper” or some sort of “sick-o”, and I have no desire to be with a woman that’s…

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