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Passion. Lust. Chemistry. No matter what you call it, it’s one of the most intoxicating forces on the planet. But if you don’t understand how amazing chemistry can actually HURT your long-term relationship chances, you need to read all of the blog posts below.

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What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

What Do I Do If I’m Not Attracted to Any Men?

I hear this question every single day. And I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all answer I can give you that everyone will agree with

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Yes, Looks Matter With First Impressions (But That’s Not All…)

Neat article in Business Insider confirms what most of us already suspect: Looks matter. Clothes matter. Non-verbal cues matter. Eye contact matters. Perception matters.

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Why Am I Not Attracted to Any Guys?

My sister is a beautiful, smart, and funny 29-year-old woman. She wants to get married and have a family someday, but her problem is that she’s not attracted to anyone.

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How You Can Create a Positive Friend Network Starting Now

Right before I got married, I had a therapist who told me something I never forgot.“Evan,” he said, “life is just a big hunk of Swiss cheese. The problem is that you only look at the holes and never even notice the cheese.”

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I Followed Your Dating Advice for the First Time and WOW!

I am a long time reader. I am a tall, educated, beyond athletic, attractive woman who is successful and age 42. I entered college to get my higher level degrees later in life, and my classmates assumed I was in my 20s (whilst in my late 30s) and I was asked out often by them

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Are There Ways to Improve Compatibility in a Relationship?

My boyfriend and I are both 31 years old and have been dating for 3 years. Recently I moved back to my hometown to finish school. I only have 8…

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If He Doesn’t Feel Chemistry, Does It Mean He Won’t Marry Me?

When we met, we were both coming out of horrible break ups and so we developed a friendship and a safe place for talking about our past or anything we…

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My Husband and I Have a Comfortable Marriage Without Sex.

I am married to an honest, loyal and trustworthy man. However, we are not intimate in any way and there is no chemistry. At one point, we went over four…

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Do Women Trade On Their Looks To Get Men With Money?

Rich men, beautiful women. It’s sort of a cliche, right? Ugly old man, young blonde gold digger. The Millionaire Matchmaker. Men make money to get hot women. Women try to…

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I Think I Just Met My Soulmate. How Can I Know If It’s Real?

First let me say, I am in no way shape or form a “creeper” or some sort of “sick-o”, and I have no desire to be with a woman that’s…

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  • "Interesting answer, thanks for your reply. I look at your answer and I can't help but look at myself. And while the picture you paint of the romantically-indecisive man does rather match me, your pi…"
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  • "Jo said "Some women are natural mirrorers, so to speak, and they’ll do best with men who prefer that type of woman. Some women, on the other hand, are natural initiators, and would have been doing s…"
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  • "I guess I tend to be pragmatic about this sort of thing. On the one hand, one wants to be true to one's self, to stay within the bounds of one's nature. On the other hand, there's what "works," wha…"
    Jeremy on The Secret To Finding Love Is…Rejection?
  • "I am a successful, decebr looking woman in my late 20s (28) my boyfriend is 50. Hes not rich or has a phenominal sex drive. But his personality and looks attract me. Ive been through a lot since i wa…"
    Jessica Allen on Why Would a Younger Woman Want to Date a Much Older Man?

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    "Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

    You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment.  I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.

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