Why Attracting The Wrong Men Isn’t The Real Problem
This is the second video based on the questions YOU wanted answered in my big survey. Last week, I shared with you the revelation that men are about feelings, not…
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(Video) The Illusion of Chemistry
You’ve seen me write about it, but here’s what it sounds like when I do it live. As always, your comments are appreciated.
Read More… 16 comments(Video) The James Bond Effect – Lust is a Drug
You want a guy who is tall, successful, charismatic, worldly, independent, and sexy. You’ve dated him before. He’s broken your heart, time and again. Why do you always go back…
Read More… 10 commentsIs It Chemistry, Or Is It Love?
I write a lot about this subject, but today’s newsletter got such a strong positive reaction that I decided to post this on the blog for anyone who does not…
Read More… 59 commentsWhat Do I Do If A Guy Is In Love With Me, But I Don’t Feel As Strongly Yet?
I have met this guy who thinks I hung the moon. He is considerate, calls me everyday, sees me often, shares his thoughts and feelings with me and wants to…
Read More… 57 commentsPassion Vs. Comfort: Do You Have to Have Fireworks to Have a Successful Relationship?
Passion vs. Comfort. This is a post you don’t want to miss, inspired by a discussion on my (500) Days of Summer thread. Here’s the gist of it. Reader Lori…
Read More… 265 commentsWhat You Can Learn From (500) Days of Summer
The wife and I saw (500) Days of Summer last night before we caught Inglourious Basterds. Very different movies, with very different messages. But since I’m a dating and relationship…
Read More… 59 commentsIs it Okay to Love Someone But Not Be “In Love”?
My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years just put all our plans on hold, including buying a house together and getting married later this year. She says she loves me but…
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I’ve spent a lot of time discussing why lust, chemistry, and that “you just know” feeling shouldn’t be the determining factors in your relationship decisions. This writer, Louise Rafkin –…
Read More… 39 commentsA.J. Jacobs on Brain Chemistry and Love in this month’s Esquire
I know the debate about chemistry rages around here, but A.J. Jacobs – a writer who always inserts himself into his own stories – went a step further. He got…
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