I don’t speak for all men. But I try to speak for the most desirable ones: smart, successful, confident, driven, honest, experienced, sensitive, and marriage-oriented. If you want to be in a relationship with a man like that, please read every single post below to get a better sense of how we think. Knowledge is power.
I’ve been reading your blog for about two years now and your book ‘Why He Disappeared‘ really helped me get over a failed relationship. Thank you! I have been dating…
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This first person article by Jill Carlin Schrager (coincidentally, the sister of a close childhood friend) found its way into my inbox and was an honest, heart-wrenching read. It was…
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I met Ramona Wright at a party 8 years ago and was immediately impressed – not just with her beauty, but with her fierce intelligence and curiosity. She’s a Facebook…
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I’ve read The Game by Neil Strauss. I’ve read some of Tucker Max’s short stories. I found both to be equally misogynist, funny, and entertaining – written as if only to show…
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My question for you is why are men so relaxed in the way that they present themselves (attire wise) when going on dates? I’m in my early 30s and I…
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I met Jim online a week ago. We spoke briefly on the phone on Wednesday. He emailed me on the same day and we made plans to meet up for…
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We may disagree on a lot, but I hope we can agree on this: The most effective way to be with a man is “vulnerable.” Believe me, I understand the…
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In 2008, I had a business coach who had just been through a painful break-up. “If you write a book, explaining why men disappear,” she said, “You’re going to be…
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Today I was helping my boyfriend of 3 years move some stuff out of his old house and into his new one, and I was in charge of this massive…
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I couldn’t be more sympathetic to women who are struggling in love. You’re burned out with online dating. You’ve wasted years on unavailable and abusive men. You’ve focused all your attention on…
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The result of giving up the search for “why” is losing the worry, the wringing of the hands, the wondering if he will call, and all the stress and sadness that goes with the worry.
To make a long story short, I am so happy because I met Mr. Right. He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction. We are committed and our relationship is going on strong for three years now.
The Inner Circle really has been a learning process for which I'm grateful. In the meantime, I am enjoying a type of peace and ease in a relationship that I’ve never experienced before. That, in itself, is a tremendous gift to me, and worth its weight in gold.
I know so much more about men and how they think, and because I have a man in my life who is worth my time and effort, I have a confidence in myself that I never had before, too.
I'm in my 60's and expected that I would not have a committed relationship again. I'm still dealing with issues internally of fear and past experiences, as is he. But we can talk about these things and know that we have something special.
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