You may think dating is a dirty word. Not when you do it my way. If you’ve ever struggled with attracting the “right” guys, getting second dates, or turning a hook-up into a boyfriend, my blog posts on dating will show you how to stop making the mistakes that have plagued you for your whole life.
A good relationship is easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.Your entire life, you’ve tried to fit a square peg in a round hole. For years, you’ve fallen for men and tried to justify why they were a long-term fit, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
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Time is running out! Okay, so that’s a bit of an overstatement. Time isn’t running out. You can find love at 38, 48, 58, 68 or 78. I see proof of this every day from happy readers and clients. But, as you already recognize from, dating DOES get tougher as you get older…
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“Finding the One Online” prompted me to get professional photos taken and to rewrite my dating profile. As a result, not a week went by without men on Match, Plenty of Fish and OK Cupid telling me my profile was the best they’d ever read.
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No more loneliness. No more frustration. No more embarrassment. No more anxiety. Soon, you will feel connected, knowing you are loved by a man who will do anything to make you happy.
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Many of you wrote back to tell me how much those lessons resonated – and how painful it is to look back at all the crap you’ve put up with from men. But there’s a big difference between realizing you’ve acted insecure in the past…
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If you’ve been at your job for over ten years, you’re probably “unconsciously competent” at it. As a dating coach for the past fifteen years, I’d like to think that describes me as well.
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I am shattered from bad relationships. I’ve just finished my seventh long term relationship and I’m only 37. The man before this last one died unfortunately from cancer and left me with a newborn baby. I took nearly four years to pull myself together after this and then met a man online.
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Sadie Hawkins Day is famous as a day when girls take the initiative by inviting the boy of their choice out on a date If you go to Wikipedia and read up on the 1937 origins, it’s not nearly as empowering.
Read More… 168 commentsSex is not a new topic on this blog. Nor is my stance on why it’s a good idea to wait until you’re in a relationship before you have sex. What’s different today is that I just had two clients who illustrated the value of my theory.
Read More… 198 commentsI don’t usually do this but I had something I wanted to say today. Thanks for viewing, sharing, and offering your thoughts below.
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I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October.
He is a beautiful person and he is so generous, affectionate, well spoken and accomplished. He is tall and athletic and totally hot. He is 53, but I am here to tell you 53 can be pretty damn impressive. All this from a woman who a year before had equated dating with despair, rejection and pain.
He recently started referring to us as boyfriend and girlfriend and it makes my heart sing. I really feel that we are moving towards the next level in our relationship and I continue to listen to “Why He Disappeared” on a weekly basis to keep myself grounded.
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