You may think dating is a dirty word. Not when you do it my way. If you’ve ever struggled with attracting the “right” guys, getting second dates, or turning a hook-up into a boyfriend, my blog posts on dating will show you how to stop making the mistakes that have plagued you for your whole life.
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now. We have been talking about buying a house together for 3 years now and every time we see something, he backs out. Because of financial reasons he always says, but he can buy a house on his own.
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I’ve been dating this guy for about three months. He has worked out of the country for 2 of those three months and just got back home this week. While he was away he called me or texted me everyday, was very attentive and made the effort to keep in contact since he was on the other side of the world.
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I followed your advice; dated a guy I normally wouldn’t have considered, let it slide when there wasn’t any chemistry, let him pick up the check, waited over a month to have sex, and stayed in the easy relationship where we never fight.
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I am in an amazing relationship with an amazing guy. It’s only been 6 weeks but it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had; he’s totally devoted to me, asked me…
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I’ve written over 120 blog posts that have to do with marriage, but every time I get a new data point, I feel it’s worth my while to share it…
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I’m 33 and in a 2-year relationship with a guy who is stable, kind, dependable and attractive. He’s much less educated than I am but that doesn’t bother me in…
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I’m 34 and have had a long dry spell in dating and reading your blog and starting to go through your Finding the One Online has been very helpful. Just…
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The world is changing rapidly. The world is changing way too slowly. You can make a case for both arguments. If you’re African-American in your sixties, you’ve lived through Jim…
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I’ve read almost your entire blog and it’s helped soothe some of my worries about my current relationship. In one way, I’m like many of your readers; I’m attractive, educated,…
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Almost a year ago a work colleague started talking to me and we started getting along. A couple of months later we went out with a couple of his friends…
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You provide a reality check and remind me that everyone has doubts and there is no one "normal" response to love and commitment. I think your insight and perspective is incredibly accurate - you seem to understand the plight/perspective of the working, successful urban woman over 30.
He is everything I never knew I always wanted. He is kind and caring, with wonderful values. He makes me feel like the most special woman in the world. I never have to wonder how he feels about me, I KNOW.
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